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Don’t Leave Me This Way: Or When I Get Back on My Feet You’ll Be Sorry
August, 2006

Healing words for tortuous times

One morning Julia Fox Garrison kissed her husband, sent her child off to school and began a busy day at work; then she got a sudden excruciating headache. After waking up in a hospital bed, Garrison learned that she'd had a massive hemorrhagic stroke, possibly caused by an over-the-counter allergy medication. Rendered incapacitated at the age of 37, Garrison quickly learns that memories can become a heavy burden, a reminder of how different the present is. The short vignette-shaped chapters in Don't Leave Me This Way: Or When I Get Back on My Feet You'll Be Sorry take readers on her gradual climb up to the relative paradise of semi-mobility, with a black humor that puts her temporary tragedy into perspective and deflates pompous doctors and nurses, strangers' nosiness, her own self-pity, and those who presume to tell her how she will or won't recover. Stories about trying to drag her paralyzed left side up the ladder of a swimming pool, persuading an instructor to renew her driver's license, and shameless visits to a priest and a comatose young girl reputed to have healing powers prove that attitude aids recovery and what doesn't kill makes one funnier. It's easy to figure out that the post-trauma Garrison is exceptional because of her response to her experiences, not in spite of them.