A celebrity-studded BookCon started out with a bang on Saturday morning: The very first panel featured Mindy Kaling in conversation with best friend (not to mention sometimes boyfriend, past co-writer on "The Office" and future co-author of an as-yet-to-be-titled project) B.J. Novak. From the moment the doors opened at 10am, crowds wound through the basement of Manhattan's Javits Center, hoping to snag a coveted entrance bracelet.
Whatever their current relationship status, Kaling and Novak had an easy chemistry throughout the 45-minute discussion, which kept the capacity crowd laughing. Though the two dodged any questions about their upcoming project, which reportedly sold for $7.5 million, Kaling dished plenty on her life, her career and of course, her new book, Why Not Me?, which comes out September 29.
On the differences between her first book and her second
“[For the first book] I was just excited to be writing a book and hope that anyone would read it. . . . I wanted people to like me. The thing with this book is that . . . I wanted people to really know who I was. So I’m incredibly honest and vulnerable in this book. And it’s a little scary, actually. But I think it makes the book funnier.”
Kaling dictates first so that she can strike the conversational tone she’s seeking. “The biggest compliment that I can get about my writing, particularly in essay form, is that it’s like you’re talking to your friend or listening to your friend talk to you.”
“I have found in the past four years that I want a friend, a female friend. It’s much harder to find someone you want to talk to than a man you want to sleep with.”
According to Kaling, her closest local female friends (Lizzy Caplan, Lena Dunham and Ellie Kemper were mentioned) are also busy and successful, so it’s hard to find time to get together. Her goal for the next five years is to “make a good female friend.” Judging by the applause at Javits to that statement and the almost unanimous prefacing of audience questions with “I love you, Mindy,” there’ll be plenty of applicants.
On being a boss
“Surprisingly, I like it a lot.” [laughter] “You get things done the way you want to get things done. But the sad thing is . . . there’s so much fun in a job about complaining about the job. It’s like, that’s 40% of what’s fun about the job. . . . My writing staff is largely comprised of people who were my friends before I hired them to come work on the show, but I do miss that aspect of it. I can’t really sit there and complain about the hours with them, because they’re like, you set the hours.”
To Novak’s question of “What do you say to someone who looks at you and thinks, why not me?” Kaling responded with “Back off, it’s not your time yet, I’m still trying to get this going.”
On a more serious note, she added that people should focus on listening to others and not merely expressing themselves. “I feel like we don’t talk about that a lot, because the only way to show that we’re empowered is by speaking it. . . .'I Feel This and I Should Say This' would be a really popular TV show. Not like, 'I Am Listening and I Understand What You’re Feeling.' Which I think is a little more important.”
On what she has learned from Mindy Lahiri
“Mindy Lahiri has dated more men than I’ve ever met in my life, and I think that it’s been interesting fake-dating so many great guys, because as an actor, when you’re dating someone on screen, a little bit of their actual courtship rituals come to life.”
She also talked about the two sides to the character—accomplished OB-GYN and celeb-stalking girly-girl—and how playing them has helped her accept some of the contrasting facets of her own personality. “It’s been very interesting being able to flip those in the character, and also in the way that it seems like realistic to people’s real lives.” To which Novak added that he has noticed the way that’s changed her: “You’ve become more comfortable being yourself, and being excellent, and not thinking of those two things being in conflict.”
On B.J. Novak
“You’re like the baddest of the good boys. Like at space camp, you’re the kid who goes, wanna smoke weed? And the other kids are like, that guy’s cool.”
“One of the things that makes you such a good best friend is whenever I want to steer into stuff that could get us into trouble . . . you definitely steer us back.” Novak: “It’s a full-time job.”
“My first crush that I can remember, the kind that keeps you up at night, when I was 11 years old, was Dana Carvey,” whom she described as “the Bill Hader of 1992 'SNL.' ” Her Carvey fantasies? “Living next door to my family with him in our house.” To which Novak responded, “Parents love Dana Carvey.”
On dream ‘Mindy Project’ guest stars
Reese Witherspoon, Tom Hanks and Dave Chapelle.
Golden Globes winning actress, producer, SNL alum, personal role model and hilarious human Amy Poehler has unveiled the cover of her upcoming book, Yes Please. Set to publish on October 28th with It Books, an imprint of Harper Collins, the book will cover topics such as friendships, dating, motherhood and more. It Books says this of Poehler's debut book:
"Her original twist on the conventional memoir will have universal appeal. An illustrated, non-linear diary full of humor and honesty and brimming with true stories, fictional anecdotes and life lessons, the book will be a unique and engaging experience from one of today's most talented and beloved stars."
If it's anything like her good friend Tina Fey's book, Bossy Pants, I will be overjoyed. But the real question is, can it live up to Leslie Knope's book, Pawnee: The Greatest Town in America?
The book is already available for pre-order. Do you think you'll be checking out Yes Please?
The inimitable Grace Coddington, creative director of Vogue, visited Nashville this weekend to chat with model Karen Elson about her new memoir, Grace, at a sold-out event at the Frist Center for the Visual Arts. You probably know Coddington from the film The September Issue (or as Coddington calls it in the opening lines of Grace, “the only reason anyone has ever heard of me.”) where she played the foil to the ice queen Anna Wintour.
It is this general waving-off of her brilliance and her monumental influence on the last half a century of fashion that sets Coddington apart from the rest of the fashion world. The same romantic humor and refreshing, familiar unpretentiousness that is found in Grace is, wonderfully, exactly how Coddington, with her shaved eyebrows and distinguishable head of red Welsh hair, seemed before an audience of Nashville’s most fashionable.
The first time Elson—Coddington’s self-declared doppelganger—introduced Coddington, it was at the 2009 British Fashion Awards, and a wrong step sent Elson “head over heels into the orchestra pit” and left her with a cracked rib. Elson’s sophomore attempt at hosting Coddington left everyone intact as they chatted lightly, trading mutual adoration, reminiscing on modeling, heralding the era of grunge and giggling over Coddington’s doodles of cats.
Although modeling and cats were the topics du jour, readers will be pleased to know that Grace only briefly covers Coddington’s modeling career, devoting more chapters to working with photographers and designers, her favorite Vogue spreads, boyfriends and, of course, cats. She imbues her writing with a sense of laa-dee-da that comes from a life of good-humored charm, and she seems only to lament the passing of time when discussing fashion’s transition into the digital age. A victorious doodle captioned “Eureka! I just opened my first email” makes light even of these monumental changes.
No matter the topic, Coddington’s message is one of perseverance. She commiserated with Elson on the criticism thrust upon models, particularly when Eileen Ford, “the American doyenne of all model agents,” announced that Coddington’s 18-inch waist was “Fat! Fat! Fat!” She became a model anyway, and so much more. It’s this attitude that makes Grace more than just a who’s-who of fashion greats, as she writes:
"For me, one of the most important aspects of my work is to give people something to dream about, just as I used to dream all those years ago as a child looking at beautiful photographs. I still weave dreams, finding inspiration wherever I can and looking for romance in the real, not the digital, world.”
Last night I saw Shawn Colvin perform live at Nashville's beautiful Cheekwood Botanical Garden. And I was tickled to get more than just a great live show: On stage, Colvin chatted about her upcoming memoir from HarperCollins, A Few Small Repairs, named for her 1996 album that featured the hit "Sunny Came Home."
She asked the audience what they'd prefer: information about the music she's played—or dirt. Surprisingly, the audience was split in their reactions. (Confession: I hollered for "dirt.")
Colvin gave more information about her book in a March interview with The Birmingham News:
"It’s a combination of stories about my life and stories I’ve told on stage, but they’re not presented in chronological order," Colvin says. "I include some of my musical thoughts, and stories that I find amusing and other people have found amusing—or not amusing." The challenges she faces as a woman, a parent, a musician and "someone who suffers from depression" will be fused into the narrative, Colvin says. Crafting a memoir proved to be quite different from songwriting, she says, and Colvin prepared by reading the work of Mary Karr, the best-selling author of a memoir trilogy, and Open, a frank autobiography by former tennis champ Andre Agassi.
Also on The Book Case: See a recent post on celebrity memoirs.