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<b>Life lessons for Father’s Day</b> <b>Big Shoes: In Celebration of Dads and Fatherhood</b> by Al Roker and Friends offers a charming compilation of memories and observations from celebrities, writers, athletes and more. Contribu-tors from Jimmy Buffet to Nina Totenberg share their experiences of their fathers and their thoughts on the importance and meaning of fatherhood. There are a few weak notes, but the majority of the stories are both warm and heartwarming, while others touch the soul with a bittersweet grace. <i>Howard Shirley is a son and a father.</i>

<b>Life lessons for Father's Day</b> <b>Big Shoes: In Celebration of Dads and Fatherhood</b> by Al Roker and Friends offers a charming compilation of memories and observations from celebrities, writers, athletes and more. Contribu-tors from Jimmy Buffet to Nina Totenberg share their experiences of their fathers…
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Take charge with advice geared to help you survive raising children Snakes, public speaking, flying, death: many people cite one of these as their greatest fear, but obviously parenting was not listed among the choices on their questionnaires. Nothing could be more intimidating, more hair-raising than the prospect of being handed a helpless infant and expected to nurture it into a capable adult. Cynthia L. Copeland understands the daunting quality of the task at hand. Her light-hearted yet heart-lifting book, The Diaper Diaries: The Real Poop on a New Mom’s First Year (Workman, $8.95, 256 pages, ISBN 0761128603) is for moms, by a mom and at under $10, it’s a bargain. Armed with this book and what this mother of three identifies as the essential ingredient for surviving motherhood a healthy sense of humor first-timers can face everything from discomfiting body changes to the breast vs. bottle dilemma.

Along with dirty-diaper disasters, laughter-inducing sections include “Projecting the Future,” which compares a proud mother’s wishful thinking about her baby’s traits to their more likely outcomes. When your baby “is not afraid of getting shots at the pediatrician’s office,” she writes, you are apt to envision the child becoming a world-famous humanitarian like Dr. Jonas Salk. But Coleman injects her own needle of reality, humorously predicting that the child will more likely become a tattoo artist in Atlantic City.

Mingled with her “been there, done that, and you can too” humor (and smile-invoking illustrations) is some sage advice. Copeland suggests using an empty box, the ground or “indestructible daddy” to entertain baby, rather than store-bought, expensive paraphernalia. And she wisely warns new moms about the “All-Baby, All-the-Time” trap. “Sweet newborns turn into cranky two-year-olds who become close to intolerable 13-year-olds,” she cautions. “But your husband will always be the same good guy who thinks you have a cute butt and makes the world’s best lasagna.” No matter how well you survive that first year, however, issues of discipline will surface along with your child’s first utterance of defiance. (Typically, the word “NO.”) No More Misbehavin’: 38 Difficult Behaviors and How to Stop Them, by Michele Borba Ed.

D., offers an in-depth examination of 38 specific behaviors, from shyness to stealing, and step-by-step instructions on how to modify them. Each chapter contains strategies and tips, a behavior makeover plan, and a place to record your family’s progress. If you are the mother of a daughter approaching her teens, you’ll appreciate a new book written specifically for this troublesome stage, When We’re in Public, Pretend You Don’t Know Me: Surviving Your Daughter’s Adolescence so You Don’t Look Like an Idiot and She Still Talks to You (Warner, $12.95, 208 pages, ISBN 0446679518) by Susan Borowitz. The author acknowledges that the friction that develops between mothers and their maturing daughters is a natural outgrowth of the daughter’s need to create her own identity. The trick for mothers is to stay connected during this tumultuous time, and Borowitz offers a wealth of ways to keep the lines of communication open. “Kids are at their most vulnerable when they go to bed and therefore are much more inclined to be open with you,” she writes, explaining that her nighttime talks with her own teenage daughter proved among the most “fruitful and connecting” during those difficult years. Finally, we’ll close with a book we hope you don’t need, but if the “D” word has crept into your life, this volume may be the most important one in our lineup. What About the Kids? Raising Your Children Before, During, and After Divorce (Hyperion, $23.95, 400 pages, ISBN 0786868651), by Judith S. Wallerstein and Sandra Blakeslee, is a comprehensive guide for helping ease the effects of divorce. Wallerstein is the author of The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce, a bestseller that delved into the long-term effects of divorce on children. In What About the Kids? she addresses the problems that occur at different stages of the breakup and different ages of the affected children. Wallerstein doesn’t flinch in tackling painful subjects, offering advice from her many years of counseling families. “Parenting is always a hazardous undertaking,” she writes. “Much of the time it’s like climbing a mountain trail that disappears and reappears, making you wonder if you’re still headed for the top or if you’re stranded on a cliff. But parenting in a divorced or remarried family is harder it’s like climbing that same trail in a blizzard, blinded by emotions and events out of your control.” Parenting may be the most frightening, difficult thing you ever do, but you should be able to survive it and live to enjoy the fruits of your labor with guidance from these parenting veterans. Linda Stankard, a writer in New York, is a survivor of parenting.

Take charge with advice geared to help you survive raising children Snakes, public speaking, flying, death: many people cite one of these as their greatest fear, but obviously parenting was not listed among the choices on their questionnaires. Nothing could be more intimidating, more hair-raising…
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After being tied up by two older bullies and forced to miss his fourth-grade graduation, Gabriel King decides there’s no way he’s moving up to fifth grade. Fifth grade would mean being in a different wing of the school reserved for older kids, including the two bullies, and he wants no part of such daily torture. It’s the summer of 1976 in Hollowell, Georgia, and the first person to hear of Gabe’s decision is his best friend, Frita Wilson, the only black girl in his class. In The Liberation of Gabriel King, Frita comes up with a plan to help Gabe stop being chicken: the two of them will each make a list of all their fears and then spend the summer facing each fear, crossing them off one by one. They’ll save Gabe’s worst fears the worst bully, Duke Evans, and fifth grade for last, when Gabe is braver.

Gabriel is not at all sure about this strategy, but he agrees to try, dutifully listing each of his 38 fears, such as spiders, alligators, robbers, losing his parents or calling his teacher momma by accident. He’s even afraid of Frita’s teenage brother, Terrance, who spends much of his time in the basement hitting punching bags. Gabe and Frita are especially believable characters, and the novel moves quickly as fear after fear is tackled, with both humorous and frightening results. This is the second novel by K.L. Going, whose Fat Kid Rules the World won a multitude of awards. Her second novel is a wonderful follow-up, a compelling and humorous story of friendship and fear that will no doubt win more accolades. Going has created a gentle yet powerful picture of racism, along with a very real portrait of the summer of 1976, when the citizens of Georgia were excited by Jimmy Carter’s run for the presidency. As he confronts his fears, Gabe also learns a lot about friendship and prejudice. He realizes, for instance, that Terrance isn’t scary at all, and he also witnesses how cruel some people are to Frita. The Liberation of Gabriel King is a smashing read, both fun and informative, providing plenty of fodder for discussion. My guess is that it will quickly be included on school reading lists. Will Gabe ever make it to the fifth grade? Start reading and see.

After being tied up by two older bullies and forced to miss his fourth-grade graduation, Gabriel King decides there's no way he's moving up to fifth grade. Fifth grade would mean being in a different wing of the school reserved for older kids, including the…
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The month of August offers several great choices for reading groups. BookPage’s selections, all newly published in paperback, are listed below. We hope these titles will inspire lively discussion in your book club.

The Tale of Murasaki By Liza Dalby

Using the writings of 11th century authoress Murasaki Shikibu, who penned The Tale of Genji, the world’s first novel, Dalby has composed an ingenious historical narrative that delivers in rich detail the life and times of a literary legend. To entertain her friends, the well-educated Murasaki writes stories about the bold Prince Genji and his romantic escapades. When her husband, a nobleman named Nobutaka, spreads the tales around the imperial court, they earn her attention from the emperor and empress. After tragedy befalls Murasaki’s family, she is summoned to court to entertain the royal couple, and what she finds there political plotting, sexual scheming, a complex code of customs and manners snakes its way into her stories. Her masterpiece of a novel results, but there is no denying the disillusionment Murasaki experiences during her time at court. Meticulously crafted, Dalby’s novel is a letter-perfect rendering of life in 11th century Japan. A reading group guide is available online at www.anchorbooks.com. For a printed version, ask your local bookseller.

Iron Shoes By Molly Giles

In her first novel, Pulitzer Prize-nominee Giles tells the story of Kay Sorenson, a 40-year-old divorcee who hasn’t outgrown the need to please her fickle parents. Kay, a mother and librarian, gave up a promising career in music to marry her high school sweetheart, then moved back in with her parents when the relationship failed. The living arrangement proves too close for comfort: Kay’s parents criticize every aspect of her life, from her taste in clothes to her taste in men. But the friction between Kay and her mother Ida is the most damaging of all. Ida, who lost both legs to diabetes, is the quintessential family matriarch: self-centered, willful, capable of wounding with a word. As Ida faces death, Kay is forced to contemplate life without her a loss that will bring both pain and a new independence. Giles writes with wit and insight about a family forced to evaluate the ties that bind even as they come undone. A reading group guide is included in the book.

Ben in the World By Doris Lessing

Lessing, who has written more than 40 books, continues the story she began with The Fifth Child (1988), which introduced Harriet and David Lovatt, the perfect parents of four perfect kids. Their decision to have one last child brings them Ben, a violent, troubled and unattractive boy who physically threatens his siblings and ends up in an institution. In Lessing’s sequel, Ben is 18, alienated from his family and at large in an unfriendly London. His hairy, animal-like appearance places him firmly on the margins of society, where he is taken advantage of by a series of seedy characters. Ben does enjoy the company of women, who pity him, and he eventually becomes involved with a prostitute named Rita. But the relationship brings trouble from Rita’s pimp boyfriend, who involves the hapless Ben in a drug deal. By setting her protagonist free in a merciless universe, Lessing has created a brutal, unflinching narrative about the ways in which those who are misunderstood so often become the world’s victims. Ask your local bookseller for a reading group guide.

Change Me into Zeus’s Daughter By Barbara Robinette Moss

Moss’ best-selling, critically acclaimed memoir is a brave, no-holds-barred account of her hardscrabble Southern childhood. Raised poor and proud in the hills of rural Alabama, Moss is one of eight children who suffers at the hands of an unpredictable, hard-drinking father. His abuses are balanced by the efforts of Moss’ gentle mother, who instills in her children a love of art that later serves as the author’s redemption. Suffering from malnutrition a condition that leaves her features disfigured Moss fantasizes as a young girl about a transformation that will give her the face of a goddess. Escaping from her impoverished life, she puts herself through school and braves a series of corrective surgeries that heals her ruined features. Against odds that seem unbeatable, she transcends both physically and spiritually her tragic past. This darkly haunting memoir has earned Moss comparisons to everyone from Frank McCourt to Rick Bragg. A reading group guide is included in the book.

The month of August offers several great choices for reading groups. BookPage's selections, all newly published in paperback, are listed below. We hope these titles will inspire lively discussion in your book club.

The Tale of Murasaki By Liza Dalby

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Take charge with advice geared to help you survive raising children Snakes, public speaking, flying, death: many people cite one of these as their greatest fear, but obviously parenting was not listed among the choices on their questionnaires. Nothing could be more intimidating, more hair-raising than the prospect of being handed a helpless infant and expected to nurture it into a capable adult. Cynthia L. Copeland understands the daunting quality of the task at hand. Her light-hearted yet heart-lifting book, The Diaper Diaries: The Real Poop on a New Mom’s First Year is for moms, by a mom and at under $10, it’s a bargain. Armed with this book and what this mother of three identifies as the essential ingredient for surviving motherhood a healthy sense of humor first-timers can face everything from discomfiting body changes to the breast vs. bottle dilemma.

Along with dirty-diaper disasters, laughter-inducing sections include “Projecting the Future,” which compares a proud mother’s wishful thinking about her baby’s traits to their more likely outcomes. When your baby “is not afraid of getting shots at the pediatrician’s office,” she writes, you are apt to envision the child becoming a world-famous humanitarian like Dr. Jonas Salk. But Coleman injects her own needle of reality, humorously predicting that the child will more likely become a tattoo artist in Atlantic City.

Mingled with her “been there, done that, and you can too” humor (and smile-invoking illustrations) is some sage advice. Copeland suggests using an empty box, the ground or “indestructible daddy” to entertain baby, rather than store-bought, expensive paraphernalia. And she wisely warns new moms about the “All-Baby, All-the-Time” trap. “Sweet newborns turn into cranky two-year-olds who become close to intolerable 13-year-olds,” she cautions. “But your husband will always be the same good guy who thinks you have a cute butt and makes the world’s best lasagna.” No matter how well you survive that first year, however, issues of discipline will surface along with your child’s first utterance of defiance. (Typically, the word “NO.”) No More Misbehavin’: 38 Difficult Behaviors and How to Stop Them (Jossey-Bass, $14.95, 352 pages, ISBN 0787966177), by Michele Borba Ed.

D., offers an in-depth examination of 38 specific behaviors, from shyness to stealing, and step-by-step instructions on how to modify them. Each chapter contains strategies and tips, a behavior makeover plan, and a place to record your family’s progress. If you are the mother of a daughter approaching her teens, you’ll appreciate a new book written specifically for this troublesome stage, When We’re in Public, Pretend You Don’t Know Me: Surviving Your Daughter’s Adolescence so You Don’t Look Like an Idiot and She Still Talks to You (Warner, $12.95, 208 pages, ISBN 0446679518) by Susan Borowitz. The author acknowledges that the friction that develops between mothers and their maturing daughters is a natural outgrowth of the daughter’s need to create her own identity. The trick for mothers is to stay connected during this tumultuous time, and Borowitz offers a wealth of ways to keep the lines of communication open. “Kids are at their most vulnerable when they go to bed and therefore are much more inclined to be open with you,” she writes, explaining that her nighttime talks with her own teenage daughter proved among the most “fruitful and connecting” during those difficult years. Finally, we’ll close with a book we hope you don’t need, but if the “D” word has crept into your life, this volume may be the most important one in our lineup. What About the Kids? Raising Your Children Before, During, and After Divorce (Hyperion, $23.95, 400 pages, ISBN 0786868651), by Judith S. Wallerstein and Sandra Blakeslee, is a comprehensive guide for helping ease the effects of divorce. Wallerstein is the author of The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce, a bestseller that delved into the long-term effects of divorce on children. In What About the Kids? she addresses the problems that occur at different stages of the breakup and different ages of the affected children. Wallerstein doesn’t flinch in tackling painful subjects, offering advice from her many years of counseling families. “Parenting is always a hazardous undertaking,” she writes. “Much of the time it’s like climbing a mountain trail that disappears and reappears, making you wonder if you’re still headed for the top or if you’re stranded on a cliff. But parenting in a divorced or remarried family is harder it’s like climbing that same trail in a blizzard, blinded by emotions and events out of your control.” Parenting may be the most frightening, difficult thing you ever do, but you should be able to survive it and live to enjoy the fruits of your labor with guidance from these parenting veterans. Linda Stankard, a writer in New York, is a survivor of parenting.

Take charge with advice geared to help you survive raising children Snakes, public speaking, flying, death: many people cite one of these as their greatest fear, but obviously parenting was not listed among the choices on their questionnaires. Nothing could be more intimidating, more hair-raising…
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amelot lives forever in our memories and in the new historical novel by Rosalind Miles, the third entry in a popular series that began with Queen of the Summer Country and The Knight of the Sacred Lake. Told from Guenevere’s perspective, The Child of the Holy Grail concludes the trilogy by chronicling the last fateful years of the House of Pendragon and the end of the mystical Avalon.

A number of books have told this ageless story of chivalry, sorcery, love and regret, and it would be easy to rehash the tale in pedantic fashion. Writing a thoroughly engrossing and engaging story, Miles avoids such a retelling, providing us with a fresh look at the tale, bringing the story and its characters to life.

Queen Guenevere, the last in a long line of female rulers, is increasingly at odds with the Christian church. Even with the adoration and support of her subjects, she must struggle against the changing tide, as Christianity’s influence grows in Britain. Considered nothing more than Arthur’s concubine and a witch by the church, Guenevere fears the church’s power as it spreads through Arthur’s court. Working to save her fragile reconciliation with the king and his waning trust in her, Guenevere must also protect Avalon, the sacred island the church so desperately wants to destroy.

Seamlessly weaving together many tales of King Arthur and the Round Table, Miles allows us to see Camelot’s unraveling through Guenevere’s eyes. We see her visions when Arthur’s son Mordred is accepted in the “Siege Perilous,” filling the one empty seat at the Round Table reserved for the son of the most peerless knight in the realm. We grow as agitated as Guenevere herself at Arthur’s blind trust in the monks’ advice and sense her fear of impending doom for the fellowship of the Round Table, of Camelot and of those she loves.

When Arthur and his son meet on that fateful day on the battlefield of the Great Plain, we anguish over the senselessness of the fight but ultimately see that Camelot is no more. Then, like Guenevere, we mourn the end of an era.

In The Child of the Holy Grail, everything old is new again and the prophecy that Arthur only sleeps until he comes again is brought to fruition.

Suzan Herskowitz Singer, author of Wills, Trusts and Estates, reviews from Winchester, Virginia.

amelot lives forever in our memories and in the new historical novel by Rosalind Miles, the third entry in a popular series that began with Queen of the Summer Country and The Knight of the Sacred Lake. Told from Guenevere's perspective, The Child of the…
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ff the beaten path There are still places in America where one can get lost on country roads and meet people whose families have lived on the land for generations. Bobbie Ann Mason writes about these places and people in her new collection of short stories, Zigzagging Down a Wild Trail. The award-winning author of In Country, Shiloh and Other Stories and Clear Springs now gives us a group of tales about life in the new South, filled with memorable characters going about their daily activities. What makes these stories masterful is that while Mason creates a distinctive place and ambience, the rich inner workings of the individuals are only hinted at, glimpsed around the next bend in the road. Human nature in all its surprising mystery is described in an eloquently hypnotic voice that, without fail, makes us wish there was more of each story to be read.

Underlying many of the narratives is a sense of sadness, the realization that the world is not always what one hopes it will be. Often, too, the characters seem helpless against the inertia of their lives and isolated from the ones they love. In “Tunica,” Liz, a stubborn girl with a weakness for gambling also has a weakness for her ex-con husband. Though she knows he is wrong for her and can identify the familiar patterns of their dysfunctional relationship, she is swept along by the tide of his personality. “Thunder Snow” introduces us to Boogie, the personification of good old boy, who struggles with his wife’s independent nature and refusal to talk about her experiences in the Persian Gulf War. With Zigzagging Down a Wild Trail, Bobbie Ann Mason has produced another collection of stories that reveals the transitions we all experience, whether we travel the world or circle the same small patch of land. These powerful stories stick in the memory like the sight of a loved one’s face upon return from a long journey or the smell of morning coffee, astonishing in their ability to comfort and settle the spirit.

ff the beaten path There are still places in America where one can get lost on country roads and meet people whose families have lived on the land for generations. Bobbie Ann Mason writes about these places and people in her new collection of short…
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ne small book for man Adrian Berry likes to think ahead. The Englishman’s 15 books include such titles as The Next 500 Years and even The Next Ten Thousand Years. In his new book, The Giant Leap: Mankind Heads for the Stars, he takes readers on a journey of science-fictional scope into the sky above. Berry, who has also written several science fiction novels, took the title for his book from Neal Armstrong’s famous line that his small step onto the surface of the moon was a giant leap for mankind. From the first moment Berry combines the flair of a novelist with the insights of a scientist. He begins with a compelling account of the Inquisition’s trial and burning of Giordano Bruno in 1600. The Church had declared the philosopher a heretic for speculating that other stars had planets. As the first to make this assertion, Bruno became for many people the unofficial patron saint of astronomy and space travel. Berry’s story leads the reader through surprising terrain. He discusses the role of the printing press in the dissolution of religion’s iron grip on Europe, the growth in speeds attainable by vehicles and even attempts to police the Internet. None of these subjects is tangential to Berry’s central theme. What he is writing about is the evolution of society and its inevitable move beyond our home planet.

Not that everyone is cheering for space travel nowadays. Incredibly, after visiting the moon a few times, the human race has apparently decided it would rather stay home and watch television.

ne small book for man Adrian Berry likes to think ahead. The Englishman's 15 books include such titles as The Next 500 Years and even The Next Ten Thousand Years. In his new book, The Giant Leap: Mankind Heads for the Stars, he takes readers…
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Plugged in and wired up for the future From cover to cover, Wireless Nation: The Frenzied Launch of the Cellular Revolution by James B. Murray, Jr. is an intriguing tale of the birth of an industry. This is a Wild West tale, a no-holds-barred account of rags to riches and the people and power-mongers that shaped the revolution in cell phones, wireless communications, pagers and the Internet. There’s Craig McCaw of McCaw Cellular; Bob Pelissier, former truck driver turned cellular entrepreneur; and Scot Jarvis, a young windsurfer who bought cellular licenses and began a small-market acquisitions team. We read about the strange coincidence of hundreds of people in a tiny hamlet in Tennessee winning cellular service rights who didn’t know they’d applied for them and wonder aloud at the incompetence of the FCC as it tried to manage an industry and technology no one fully understood.

Carefully documented and well-researched, Wireless Nation is a must-read for anyone interested in communications issues. It is also a glimpse into the future of emerging technology and the management (and mismanagement) of technology by government. It is also a tale of hopeful entrepreneurs, wild chances taken and opportunity gained by sheer bravado. Summer business reading at its best.

Plugged in and wired up for the future From cover to cover, Wireless Nation: The Frenzied Launch of the Cellular Revolution by James B. Murray, Jr. is an intriguing tale of the birth of an industry. This is a Wild West tale, a no-holds-barred account…

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Plato said, “The direction in which education starts a man will determine his future life.” With so much at stake, it’s no wonder that helping students succeed is a daunting task for all involved. Just in time for a new school year, several new books offer parents ideas for cultivating a prosperous environment that yields better results for their children.

School reform In Making Schools Work: A Revolutionary Plan to Get Your Children the Education They Need (Simon &and Schuster, $25, 304 pages, ISBN 0743246306) UCLA professor William Ouchi advocates bold, unconventional methods for turning around low-performing schools. Wondering, for example, how much your school district really spends on its students? Ouchi proposes attending a school board meeting to ask board members in public.

An intensive study of the management systems in six metropolitan areas, Making Schools Work examines an array of public and private schools. Through interviews with superintendents, principals and teachers, Ouchi gleans a complete picture of what works. He finds that the keys are an entrepreneurial spirit and parents who arm themselves with information.

“Once the principal and teachers in your school realize that you know what questions to ask . . . they’ll come up with answers for you,” Ouchi writes. “If you don’t ask, though, they’re likely to continue business as usual, with the same results as before.” Ouchi concludes that bureaucratic, top-heavy school districts collapse under their own weight, while districts that allow all parties to participate in decision-making thrive.

Arriving on the heels of the No Child Left Behind Act of 2001, a stringent federal education law that demands academic improvement, Making Schools Work is a pragmatic, meticulously researched and engaging glimpse at what happens and what should happen behind schoolhouse doors.

Conference time Harvard University professor Sara Lawrence-Lightfoot offers a fascinating meditation on the dynamics of an age-old school tradition, the parent-teacher conference, in The Essential Conversation: What Parents and Teachers Can Learn From Each Other (Random House, $24.95, 288 pages, ISBN 037550527X).

The author contends that adults coming together to discuss a child’s progress are accompanied by what she calls their own “autobiographical scripts.” In other words, their exchanges are colored by their own experiences as students.

As a child in a rural New York school district, Lawrence-Lightfoot’s teacher informed her crushed parents that she might not be college material. Years later, Lawrence-Lightfoot’s mother still wished she had advocated harder on her child’s behalf.

The Essential Conversation instructs parents and teachers alike how to do just that. At the start of most conferences, parents are terrified of negative feedback about their children, and teachers worry that they’ll hit a nerve, causing parents to withdraw from the discussion. Instead of conversations that yield solutions, conferences can devolve into rigid, polite exchanges that are, ultimately, a waste of time.

“[We must] modify our portrayal of parent-teacher meetings as civilized, ritualized encounters devoid of passion and heat, and replace it with a much more realistic picture that admits the threats, the vulnerabilities, the wounds,” says Lawrence-Lightfoot.

Lawrence-Lightfoot writes with great precision and compassion about this crucial but often-minimized component of the school experience. She offers specific and constructive ideas on how to transform an anxious, sometimes awkward interaction into the essential conversation that it should be.

Empowering parents Any parent who has ever done a slow burn trying to understand what really goes on in the classroom would do well to pick up A+ Teachers: How to Empower Your Child’s Teacher, and Your Child, to Excellence. Author Erika Shearin Karres offers a straightforward manual that instructs parents on specific questions to ask that can contribute meaningfully to their child’s education.

A+ Teachers is particularly enlightening when Shearin Karres delves into the myriad overlooked factors that affect a learning environment. She contends that teachers’ personalities and attitudes, such as whether they treat their students with respect, can have an enormous impact on student progress.

“If kids notice constant grouchiness and feel dissed, they can’t learn,” she writes.

A former teacher, Shearin Karres is a frequent lecturer on education issues. Her breezy, tell-it-like-it-is prose makes reading A+ Teachers feel a lot like getting advice from a feisty friend. This book will be a welcome guide for parents trying to navigate the confusing maze of lesson plans, discipline and testing. Amy Scribner writes from Washington, D.C.

Plato said, "The direction in which education starts a man will determine his future life." With so much at stake, it's no wonder that helping students succeed is a daunting task for all involved. Just in time for a new school year, several new books…
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E OLDE CURIOSITY SHOPPE Every man a Rembrandt Perhaps there are some mysteries we are not meant to understand. For this category, I nominate the reasoning behind Fed interest rates, everything about Celine Dion and the half-life of fads. Of course, we’re herd animals. This is the nation that went ga-ga over the hula hoop, the phrase “You go, girl,” and even, God help us, macramŽ. But does that explain the story told in Paint by Number: The How-To Craze That Swept the Nation? New prosperity and more free time in the 1950s helped fuel a number of trends. But filling in numbered segments to produce a stiff-looking oil painting? No one could have predicted the success of Dan Robbins’ invention. Would-be artists went wild, and by 1954, more “number” paintings hung in American homes than did original works of art. As Paint by Number proves, it’s not as if the end result for all that hard work turned out to be truly impressive. The Last Supper, for example, looks like a Hari Krishna board meeting; a pensive Jesus could just as easily be Cat Stevens. In the odd cultural history that is Paint by Number, William L. Bird Jr. proves an insightful guide. He explores the relationship between “low” and “high” culture, the increasing influence of the media and the genuine artistic urge satisfied by handicrafts. What cultural historians do is place such pop phenomena in perspective for the rest of us, and in tackling this particular subject, Mr. Bird is a braver man than I am.

E OLDE CURIOSITY SHOPPE Every man a Rembrandt Perhaps there are some mysteries we are not meant to understand. For this category, I nominate the reasoning behind Fed interest rates, everything about Celine Dion and the half-life of fads. Of course, we're herd animals. This…
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Plato said, “The direction in which education starts a man will determine his future life.” With so much at stake, it’s no wonder that helping students succeed is a daunting task for all involved. Just in time for a new school year, several new books offer parents ideas for cultivating a prosperous environment that yields better results for their children.

School reform In Making Schools Work: A Revolutionary Plan to Get Your Children the Education They Need (Simon ∧ Schuster, $25, 304 pages, ISBN 0743246306) UCLA professor William Ouchi advocates bold, unconventional methods for turning around low-performing schools. Wondering, for example, how much your school district really spends on its students? Ouchi proposes attending a school board meeting to ask board members in public.

An intensive study of the management systems in six metropolitan areas, Making Schools Work examines an array of public and private schools. Through interviews with superintendents, principals and teachers, Ouchi gleans a complete picture of what works. He finds that the keys are an entrepreneurial spirit and parents who arm themselves with information.

“Once the principal and teachers in your school realize that you know what questions to ask . . . they’ll come up with answers for you,” Ouchi writes. “If you don’t ask, though, they’re likely to continue business as usual, with the same results as before.” Ouchi concludes that bureaucratic, top-heavy school districts collapse under their own weight, while districts that allow all parties to participate in decision-making thrive.

Arriving on the heels of the No Child Left Behind Act of 2001, a stringent federal education law that demands academic improvement, Making Schools Work is a pragmatic, meticulously researched and engaging glimpse at what happens and what should happen behind schoolhouse doors.

Conference time Harvard University professor Sara Lawrence-Lightfoot offers a fascinating meditation on the dynamics of an age-old school tradition, the parent-teacher conference, in The Essential Conversation: What Parents and Teachers Can Learn From Each Other.

The author contends that adults coming together to discuss a child’s progress are accompanied by what she calls their own “autobiographical scripts.” In other words, their exchanges are colored by their own experiences as students.

As a child in a rural New York school district, Lawrence-Lightfoot’s teacher informed her crushed parents that she might not be college material. Years later, Lawrence-Lightfoot’s mother still wished she had advocated harder on her child’s behalf.

The Essential Conversation instructs parents and teachers alike how to do just that. At the start of most conferences, parents are terrified of negative feedback about their children, and teachers worry that they’ll hit a nerve, causing parents to withdraw from the discussion. Instead of conversations that yield solutions, conferences can devolve into rigid, polite exchanges that are, ultimately, a waste of time.

“[We must] modify our portrayal of parent-teacher meetings as civilized, ritualized encounters devoid of passion and heat, and replace it with a much more realistic picture that admits the threats, the vulnerabilities, the wounds,” says Lawrence-Lightfoot.

Lawrence-Lightfoot writes with great precision and compassion about this crucial but often-minimized component of the school experience. She offers specific and constructive ideas on how to transform an anxious, sometimes awkward interaction into the essential conversation that it should be.

Empowering parents Any parent who has ever done a slow burn trying to understand what really goes on in the classroom would do well to pick up A+ Teachers: How to Empower Your Child’s Teacher, and Your Child, to Excellence (Andrews McMeel, $10.95, 224 pages, ISBN 0740735233). Author Erika Shearin Karres offers a straightforward manual that instructs parents on specific questions to ask that can contribute meaningfully to their child’s education.

A+ Teachers is particularly enlightening when Shearin Karres delves into the myriad overlooked factors that affect a learning environment. She contends that teachers’ personalities and attitudes, such as whether they treat their students with respect, can have an enormous impact on student progress.

“If kids notice constant grouchiness and feel dissed, they can’t learn,” she writes.

A former teacher, Shearin Karres is a frequent lecturer on education issues. Her breezy, tell-it-like-it-is prose makes reading A+ Teachers feel a lot like getting advice from a feisty friend. This book will be a welcome guide for parents trying to navigate the confusing maze of lesson plans, discipline and testing. Amy Scribner writes from Washington, D.C.

Plato said, "The direction in which education starts a man will determine his future life." With so much at stake, it's no wonder that helping students succeed is a daunting task for all involved. Just in time for a new school year, several new books…
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James Tuttle, nicknamed Tut, has been silent since his mother died in a boating accident on his father’s fishing boat. Tut mistakenly believes he caused the accident by distracting her at a key moment. Meanwhile, his father is so distraught by the loss that he drinks heavily and ignores his duties and his son. Were it not for the kindness of a handful of people, Tut might starve. One day a neighborhood girl named Alex walks into Tut’s life, talking incessantly and following him everywhere. As Alex tells him: People are always telling me I talk too much. When I heard that you hadn’t said a word in years, I thought maybe we could be friends. If I love to talk and you can’t, what could be more perfect than that? Alex’s first thought is Death by fire ants. Tut fears he may be taken away from his father, and Alex’s mother keeps threatening to send her to live with her father, whom she has never met. At first Tut can’t stand this girl, but gradually they find solace in their friendship. The Last Codfish is J.D. McNeill’s first book, and it is sure to earn her fans. Tut and Alex are highly believable and complex, and their rocky oceanside village comes to life with vivid descriptions. Tut loves the ocean and readers will practically smell the salt air. All the characters are drawn with delicate, finely painted shades. Yes, we rage at how Tut’s father neglects his son, yet McNeill also lets readers feel sorry for this deeply grieving man.

Tut’s classmates think he is dumb, but he’s actually a talented poet and writer who devours his mother’s old books. Thankfully, several people befriend him and try to help a storekeeper who gives him food and clothing, a woman who makes meals for him, and a new English teacher who realizes how smart Tut is and grows determined to see him live up to his potential.

When Alex’s father finally does come to town, Alex decides to go into hiding on a nearby island, a perilous plan that will require Tut’s help. The more you read of The Last Codfish, the more quickly you’ll turn its pages to reach the exciting conclusion.

James Tuttle, nicknamed Tut, has been silent since his mother died in a boating accident on his father's fishing boat. Tut mistakenly believes he caused the accident by distracting her at a key moment. Meanwhile, his father is so distraught by the loss that…

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