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How should boys be boys? In 1994 Mary Pipher created a stir with her groundbreaking book about adolescent girls, Reviving Ophelia. Now it’s the year of the boy, with two titles receiving widespread attention. The first, A Fine Young Man: What Parents, Mentors, and Educators Can Do to Shape Adolescent Boys into Exceptional Boys (Tarcher/Putnam, $24.95, 0874779197), is by Michael Gurian, author of the best-selling The Wonder of Boys. Gurian says adolescent males are our most undernurtured population. Much attention, he rightly says, has been given to adolescent girls; now it’s time to give boys what he calls New Models of Manhood, which include compassion, honor, responsibility, and enterprise. Such timeless ideals are hardly new, but Gurian’s thoughts are worth pondering.

In a similar vein, in Real Boys: Rescuing Our Sons from the Myths of Boyhood, William Pollack argues that boys are forced to prematurely separate from their mothers at ages five or six. From that time on, we expect them to heed what he calls the Boy Code, to be stoic, rough-and-tumble little men. To make matters worse, Pollack says, society views boys as toxic in other words, psychologically unaware, emotionally unsocialized creatures. And yet as men they are expected to be masculine, communicative, and sensitive. No wonder, he notes, that boys are confused! Pollack concludes: Real boys need people to be with who allow them to show all of their emotions, including their most intense feelings of sadness, disappointment, and fear. Any parent will find this an intriguing, immensely readable book.

Alice Cary is a mother and a reviewer in Groton, Massachusetts.

How should boys be boys? In 1994 Mary Pipher created a stir with her groundbreaking book about adolescent girls, Reviving Ophelia. Now it's the year of the boy, with two titles receiving widespread attention. The first, A Fine Young Man: What Parents, Mentors, and Educators…

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The fanfare for this mammoth 770-page World War II novel sounded a dissonant chord or two. Is author James Thackara a literary genius with the depth of Dostoyevsky and Melville, as his publicists rave? Or is he, as some critics grouse, a pretentious poseur? In fact, The Book of Kings turns out to be one of the most ambitious, eccentric, morally driven books ever run off a press.

At its most frustrating, it is indeed grandiose in the manner of self-taught philosophy. Lyrical passages are artificially sweetened. But for much of its length, inspired writing gives impassioned witness to the destruction of 50 million human beings by totalitarian ideas, insane or wicked tyrants, and feckless democracies. Thackara reminds those who have forgotten and teaches those who never knew that World War II was more about evil than about heroism.

This is not the blue-collar combat experience of American moviemaking. The major characters of The Book of Kings, beginning with four young men who room together at the Sorbonne in Paris in the 1930s, move at the highest levels of European society, government, or military life. One of them knows Hitler; his friend becomes a world-renowned antifascist writer. Others include a famous film star and an important Wagnerian soprano. These grand beings have highly attenuated emotions.

Nonetheless, most will directly experience the horrors of the war, and the novel thus becomes propaganda at its most idealistic and benign. When portraying concentration camp atrocities or battlefield slaughter in high-resolution detail, Thackara’s elevated language accurately hits the high key of his humanistic theme.

Unfortunately, the cat’s out of the bag in postwar episodes. Elevated dialogue becomes pompous or goofy when the guns fall silent; noble ideas curdle into elitist fantasies. For a humanitarian, Thackara has a disturbing penchant for believing his characters superior to the bulk of humanity. Even so, this original if flawed novel is rewarding for its view of the war as primarily a European tragedy, its high-minded if self-righteous aims, and its stunning scenes of credible action in a world gone morally dark.

Charles Flowers, a freelance writer in Purdys, New York, recently received The Stephen Crane Literary Award.

The fanfare for this mammoth 770-page World War II novel sounded a dissonant chord or two. Is author James Thackara a literary genius with the depth of Dostoyevsky and Melville, as his publicists rave? Or is he, as some critics grouse, a pretentious poseur? In…

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How should boys be boys? In 1994 Mary Pipher created a stir with her groundbreaking book about adolescent girls, Reviving Ophelia. Now it’s the year of the boy, with two titles receiving widespread attention. The first, A Fine Young Man: What Parents, Mentors, and Educators Can Do to Shape Adolescent Boys into Exceptional Boys, is by Michael Gurian, author of the best-selling The Wonder of Boys. Gurian says adolescent males are our most undernurtured population. Much attention, he rightly says, has been given to adolescent girls; now it’s time to give boys what he calls New Models of Manhood, which include compassion, honor, responsibility, and enterprise. Such timeless ideals are hardly new, but Gurian’s thoughts are worth pondering.

In a similar vein, in Real Boys: Rescuing Our Sons from the Myths of Boyhood (Random House, $24.95, 0375501312; Random House AudioBooks, $18, 0375402918), William Pollack argues that boys are forced to prematurely separate from their mothers at ages five or six. From that time on, we expect them to heed what he calls the Boy Code, to be stoic, rough-and-tumble little men. To make matters worse, Pollack says, society views boys as toxic in other words, psychologically unaware, emotionally unsocialized creatures. And yet as men they are expected to be masculine, communicative, and sensitive. No wonder, he notes, that boys are confused! Pollack concludes: Real boys need people to be with who allow them to show all of their emotions, including their most intense feelings of sadness, disappointment, and fear. Any parent will find this an intriguing, immensely readable book.

Alice Cary is a mother and a reviewer in Groton, Massachusetts.

How should boys be boys? In 1994 Mary Pipher created a stir with her groundbreaking book about adolescent girls, Reviving Ophelia. Now it's the year of the boy, with two titles receiving widespread attention. The first, A Fine Young Man: What Parents, Mentors, and Educators…

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Your thank-you to Fred is from the bottom of your heart, so how about a book about the bottom of the ocean? Underwater photographer Roger Steene has assembled over 300 full-color photographs into one stunning volume titled Coral Seas (Firefly Books, $50, 1552092909). Steene spent five years traveling worldwide to capture the colorful world of the coral reefs, and the oversized photographs provide up-close detail of the rainbow of creatures that inhabit the deep. A paragraph or two provides just enough information about these inhabitants, but the real focus here (and rightfully so) is Steene’s work. Subjects range from a great white humpback whale to the microscopic hard coral’s first 14 days (Steene is the only underwater photographer who delves into the microscopic). A great chance to go scuba diving without even getting your toes wet!

Your thank-you to Fred is from the bottom of your heart, so how about a book about the bottom of the ocean? Underwater photographer Roger Steene has assembled over 300 full-color photographs into one stunning volume titled Coral Seas (Firefly Books, $50, 1552092909). Steene spent…

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If flying high in the sky with ducks and digging into the earth’s floral depths isn’t quite what you had in mind, how about a trip back in time? Hidden in Plain View: A Secret Story of Quilts and the Underground Railroad is the first-ever written account of the Quilt Code used by slaves. At a chance meeting in Charleston, South Carolina, quiltmaker Ozella McDaniel Williams told author Jacqueline Tobin about slaves who would color- and pattern-code their quilts (for most slaves could neither read nor write) as a way to communicate to other slaves escaping on the Underground Railroad. Co-authored by Dr. Raymond G. Dobard, who provides historical foundation to Williams’s story, Hidden in Plain View recounts an intricate web of navigation, communication, and courage. Includes color photographs and drawings of the various patterns, colors, and fabrics used in this unique mapping system.

If flying high in the sky with ducks and digging into the earth's floral depths isn't quite what you had in mind, how about a trip back in time? Hidden in Plain View: A Secret Story of Quilts and the Underground Railroad is the first-ever…

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I first read Chaim Potok’s wonderful novel, The Chosen, as a teenager, and now, as an adult, I am treated to his riveting new book for teenagers, Zebra and Other Stories. All six concern young people facing a huge loss or crisis, and all feature the theme of rescue, either real, imagined, or unattainable. In the title story, for example, a boy nicknamed Zebra comes to terms with life after being hit by a car and losing his ability to do the thing he loves most run. He is helped by an itinerant art teacher who shows him how to look beyond his injuries to the surrounding world, to look at the edge of your hand and at the space outside. In "B.B.," a boy realizes that his father has left the family only to change his mind quickly and return, yet the boy can’t discuss this horrible secret with anyone. As B.B. notes: "Sometimes it seems to me that half of the stories in the papers and on TV are about the secrets people have, and the other half are about what they do when the secrets are uncovered."

In another splendid story, "Nava," when a girl is menaced by a drug dealer who has a crush on her, she turns to Navajo chants and healing powers for help, powers that saved her father’s life in Vietnam. In "Isabel," a girl mourns her late father and brother while her mother remarries an architect with a drinking problem and his own teenage girl. As this man redesigns not only her house but her life, Isabel and her new stepsister come to terms with their losses and with each other. All the title characters are heartachingly real, while a good many of the adults seem particularly insensitive (as indeed many always seem to be from a teen’s perspective!). The adults repeatedly believe their children are too young to deal with various issues and knowledge, while, in fact, their offspring are already dealing with these things.

Potok knows that real problems have no easy answers. His timeless plots and prose need no in-your-face gimmicks to be fresh, while there are feather-light touches of magic and mysticism and plenty of references to contemporary issues, such as war, weapons, drugs, child labor in foreign countries, death and illness. Here’s a collection to make readers not only think and feel, but to examine personal tragedies and triumphs, and, last, but hardly least, to increase their understanding of family dynamics, political duties, and personal dilemmas. All of this in 146 easy-to-read pages is quite a literary feat!

Alice Cary is an author and reviewer in Groton, Massachusetts.

I first read Chaim Potok's wonderful novel, The Chosen, as a teenager, and now, as an adult, I am treated to his riveting new book for teenagers, Zebra and Other Stories. All six concern young people facing a huge loss or crisis, and all feature…

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If April showers bring May flowers, get a headstart with The Tulip: The Story of a Flower That Has Made Men Mad. Author Anna Pavord spent six years sifting through library books, paintings, illustrations, tulip gardens (cultivated, wild, and sometimes dangerous), and talking to scores of tulipomaniacs to develop a thorough account of the flower’s very checkered past. Beginning with its Turkish roots (one sultan’s reign was completely dominated by his passion for the tulip), Pavrod reveals incidents where entire businesses were traded for one single bulb; the tulip’s migration from one continent to another; the great mystery behind breaking, where a plain tulip changes into a multi-colored bloom (once thought to be a grower-controlled process, it’s actually caused by a virus). Rich endpapers contain Pavord’s detailed text, and The Tulip is complete with color plates and hundreds of species’ descriptions. Ideal for gardeners and social historians.

If April showers bring May flowers, get a headstart with The Tulip: The Story of a Flower That Has Made Men Mad. Author Anna Pavord spent six years sifting through library books, paintings, illustrations, tulip gardens (cultivated, wild, and sometimes dangerous), and talking to scores…

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Perfectly comforting both to young children and to moms who work away from home, this book soothes hearts with its rock-a-bye rhythm and Mary Cassatt-inspired art. Author Eileen Spinelli, now a grandmother, has had plenty of experience in putting her six children to bed after a long day’s work. We suspect she’s also done some singing it’s almost impossible not to sing as you read the rhymed promises filled with a mother’s love.

Jane Dyer’s glowing illustrations, with an abundance of blue, gold, and green, match the feeling of the words as they show mother and child enjoying day’s-end activities together dancing down the hall, playing pat-a-cake, playing blocks, counting stars, bathing, etc. The matching golden curls in their hair seem to make them closer.

When Mama Comes Home Tonight will surely be a bedtime favorite for years to come.

Perfectly comforting both to young children and to moms who work away from home, this book soothes hearts with its rock-a-bye rhythm and Mary Cassatt-inspired art. Author Eileen Spinelli, now a grandmother, has had plenty of experience in putting her six children to bed after…

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Sitting Ducks is geared toward the children’s market, but many adults will recognize author/illustrator Michael Bedard’s artwork. Best known for his poster illustrations, Bedard makes his debut in picture books with a wonderful story about an odd-couple friendship between a factory-employed alligator and factory-hatched duck. Ducks are normally the primary meal in the alligator’s world, but a chance meeting forges a friendship between these two. The alligator does what he can to protect his little friend, but alas, the duck wants to see the world that lies beyond the alligator’s apartment. The only chance the little duck has for survival is to leave the alligator’s world forever, but that would leave the alligator alone and heartbroken right? Sitting Ducks teaches lessons in friendship and diversity, and Bedard’s hilarious illustrations will keep readers smiling, even through the not-so-happy parts.

Sitting Ducks is geared toward the children's market, but many adults will recognize author/illustrator Michael Bedard's artwork. Best known for his poster illustrations, Bedard makes his debut in picture books with a wonderful story about an odd-couple friendship between a factory-employed alligator and factory-hatched duck.…

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For those who are involved in family business, You Can’t Fire Me I’m Your Father!, will provide insight into navigating the issues and challenges that are unique to a family business.

Dr. Neil Koenig recognizes that whether around the conference table or the breakfast table, psychology always comes into play. He defines four typical scenarios of family businesses. The success and failure of each is assessed based upon a business owner’s priorities on the family or on the business, on both or on neither. Readers will recognize that few businesses or individuals will consistently fall into only one category. Some families, typically the entrepreneurial founders, prioritize the business and ignore the family. For others, often second generation business owners, the business is simply a playground for their whims and egos. The book summarizes that, not surprisingly, the most successful family businesses are those in which the owners prioritize both the family and the business.

Boundaries are an important topic explored by Dr. Koenig. Family members must put serious boundaries between their home lives and the work place. They must recognize that there are unique challenges in being successful when working with siblings and parents. They must leave personal issues at home. The reverse is true as well. Family members are advised to deal with business issues only at the office. Koenig recommends outlining a series of appropriate values that permeate major decisions of the business. And he suggests practices to keep the business independent of a narrow, family-oriented focus, such as establishing an independent board of directors.

The chapter summaries are excellent, giving brief overviews of the major points that have been made. It is also worthwhile to review the advice offered in the Fifty-five Best Practices of Family Business. Although many of the messages in You Can’t Fire Me I’m Your Father! may seem obvious to the reader, they are nevertheless worth revisiting. The obvious practices can often be those that are both most neglected and most important.

Beth Seigenthaler is the President of Seigenthaler Public Relations of Nashville, Tennessee, which was founded by her father, Thomas P. Seigenthaler.

For those who are involved in family business, You Can't Fire Me I'm Your Father!, will provide insight into navigating the issues and challenges that are unique to a family business.

Dr. Neil Koenig recognizes that whether around the conference table or the…
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The unfortunate reality of today’s society is that children cannot remain innocent for very long. They need to be aware of the various potentially dangerous situations they may face and the ways in which they can best handle these situations. With the majority of households having parents who work outside the home, children are now responsible for their own welfare at a much earlier age than in the past.

The Safe Zone provides children, ages eight and up, and their parents positive ways to identify and prepare for these threatening situations. In an easy-to-read format, the authors discuss issues ranging from dealing with bullies to that of safety away from home.

The language is concise and clear. Topics are introduced in a matter-of-fact manner without any sense of alarm. Each chapter provides what if scenarios for the reader to ponder, real-life situations and photos, and specific techniques to use to de-escalate the situations. Interspersed throughout the book are skills, such as the use of peripheral vision, for children to practice.

Chaiet and Russell liken the reading of their book to preparing for a fire. They feel children should practice the skills they offer in the book and plan ahead for their own safety. They emphasize the idea that self-defense does not necessarily mean the use of physical force.

Throughout the book they stress four key elements as essential for self-defense: awareness of your environment, use of body language, importance of self-esteem, and the enforcement of both emotional and physical boundaries. The authors believe that if a child has practiced all four of these factors and keeps them in mind, he or she should have a minimal number of problems. In addition, The Safe Zone also stresses the importance of children trusting their gut when reacting to a particular situation.

In a more perfect world, this book would not be necessary. Children would be able to live worry-free lives. However, such a utopia does not exist at present perhaps it never did and we must prepare our children to live in our society as it exists today. Ideally, children and parents should read The Safe Zone together, and after much discussion, determine the best preparation for each family to take.

Karen Chikofsky is a reviewer of children’s books in Brooklyn, New York.

The unfortunate reality of today's society is that children cannot remain innocent for very long. They need to be aware of the various potentially dangerous situations they may face and the ways in which they can best handle these situations. With the majority of households…

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Getting the facts on fat It has taken a long time. Yes, there are still a few misguided souls who are persuaded that the Twiggy look of the ’60s is absolutely in, but we’re all wising up. What nutritionists and fitness gurus have been trying to tell us for decades is beginning to sink in: Weight loss can only be achieved by a sensible reduction in calories and a combination of aerobic and strength training exercises. Whether you’re a veteran who’s fought many battles of the bulge, or whether you’ve never had a weight problem until now, two books will help you understand our national obsession with weight control. You may not be surprised to learn that one American in four is obese, but you may not know the reasons why or what to do about it. Shawna Vogel’s The Skinny on Fat: Our Obsession with Weight Control (W.

H. Freeman, $22.95, 071673091X) zeros in on how fat loss really works, what research reveals about how we gain weight, and what we can do to achieve our ideal weight. Freeman begins with a history of our national fixation on diets and follows the craze down to present-day research. Then she reveals the latest on how diet and exercise affect the mind and body, how to get fat off the healthy way, how to be a successful loser, and how to think beyond dieting.

The most frustrating thing about weight gain for those who have their fingers on the pulse of the nation is that the United States is heading toward 100 percent obesity by the year 2230. But we aren’t alone. The rates are also rising in other parts of the world and at the same rapid clip. Vogel’s book isn’t just for fat people. Sooner or later everyone is affected by fat and by a marketplace waiting to cash in on our collective tonnage. From no-fat, low-calorie, low-sugar, low-salt foods to slimming fashions and exercise equipment, This book and the research in it . . . are about health and weight regulation in all people. In Michelle Joy Levine’s I Wish I Were Thin, I Wish I Were Fat: The Real Reasons We Overeat and What We Can Do About It, you’ll discover the answers to the questions that have always bothered you about your weight: Why do I fail at diets? Why do I gain my weight back? Why do I binge? Why can’t I get thin? Levine has helped many break the destructive diet/binge cycle through an awareness of the factors at work in uncontrollable hunger. She discusses the most common unconscious culprits behind overeating and how to recognize them. She also presents practical strategies for separating eating from emotions and, as a bonus, includes calorie-free ideas for soothing the spirit and pampering the body. And yes, she talks about the two things that all weight control programs talk about because they work: the need to eat less and exercise.

Levine’s message is empowering. It is possible to achieve lasting weight loss, but she warns that staying thin is a lifestyle . . . You must make a habit of exercise and self-denial. Pat Regel writes, runs, and lifts weights in Nashville.

Getting the facts on fat It has taken a long time. Yes, there are still a few misguided souls who are persuaded that the Twiggy look of the '60s is absolutely in, but we're all wising up. What nutritionists and fitness gurus have been trying…

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Imagination is a wonderful thing, and it seems most active in children when it’s bedtime. Author and illustrator Marc Sutherland is no child, but his imagination is terrific in his first book, The Waiting Place. He has positioned himself as a child in bed on one of those sleepless nights when my toes itch, and the rickety floorboards creak . . . And the rusty old bedsprings squeak and imagination soars.

All sorts of creatures dance into the bedroom through the open window. They in turn create faraway places and adventures for the sleepless child a submarine ride deep in the sea, a visit to the North Woods, sailing in a longboat with Vikings, riding to the moon in a hot-air ballon. Sutherland introduces each new flight of fancy with a brief verse.

The best surprise comes with daylight when the child discovers a blizzard blew in with the morning and the reality of a day’s play in the snow takes hold. For the first time, readers see the child standing at the open window ready to meet the day.

Sutherland’s detailed, black-and-white illustrations fill the child’s room just beyond the foot of the bed on each spread. They are captivating. Don’t think you can read this bedtime book once and call it a day. Any child not half asleep will want to look for the apple that appears in every picture. You may find yourself going back to look at the Latin motto carried by the Queen’s soldiers or trying to figure out the next move on the chess board. Sutherland has been drawing and painting since he was a boy perhaps not too long ago since he’s in his early thirties. Born in Quebec, he attended art school before returning to the woods in New Hampshire, where he lives and works as a forester. There he has had time to imagine and create these unbelievably rich charcoal drawings. Marian Schonfelter is a first grade teacher in Milwaukee, Wisconsin.

Imagination is a wonderful thing, and it seems most active in children when it's bedtime. Author and illustrator Marc Sutherland is no child, but his imagination is terrific in his first book, The Waiting Place. He has positioned himself as a child in bed on…

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