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Have you ever needed clear-cut, specific information on a gardening subject? You check your favorite gardening magazine and find more fluff than substance. The gardening books you've collected over the years have a little information, but don't address the subject in depth, and your local nurseries, garden centers, and radio garden show hosts haven't a clue. So, where do you go to get the answers?

You do what any serious gardener does. You begin building your reference library on the front end. This is particularly important for beginner gardeners. Beginners have a lot of general questions about everything horticultural, but as they start putting in years of hands-on experience, the tougher, more specific questions become the challenges, and particular interests develop. Every experienced gardener remembers graduating from the basic generalities to the in-depth specifics. Building a good reference library takes time, but there's no guesswork about what sources to begin with. The American Horticultural Society (AHS) has long been recognized for providing gardeners with usable, specific information. Their references, encyclopedias, and guides are affordable, and the topics are extensive and instructive. Below are some of their recent references published by Dorling Kindersley.

Gardening in Shade by Linden Hawthorne offers more choices for sunless gardens than you can imagine. This small text explains the advantages of shade gardening and offers not only flowering and foliage plant lists, but planting plans for shady borders, shady city gardens, planting under trees, planting in damp shade, and special plant collections. Gardening in the shade comes with its own requirements and problems, and this guide explains how to care for shade plants when preparing the bed for planting, giving routine plant care, and keeping shade plants healthy and disease-free. Because shade is not just shade, the guide also discusses plants for light, partial, dappled, and deep shade. A handy calendar of seasonal reminders is included as well as an A-Z plant directory.

Herb Gardens by Richard Rosenfeld is crammed with encyclopedic information about creating formal herb gardens, growing herbs in gravel, brick and paving stone, growing herbs in containers, using herbs in Mediterranean plantings and in mixed borders. Along with extensive plant lists and directory, there are projects for drying and storing herbs, culinary and craft usage, as well as simple herbal remedies. Plant care is discussed, from raising seedlings to harvesting, and the same instructive color photos appear in this guide as in all of the other guides in this series.

Perennials by Ray Edwards is a good introductory primer to perennials. Over the past 20 years, these plants have become more popular in the U. S. than annuals because they don't need to be planted each year, they multiply quickly, and therefore they are cheaper in the long run. This AHS guide introduces beginners to flowering and foliage perennials, offers garden plans to suit any garden site, soil, and style, and discusses designing beds for color. There are instructions for preparing the soil, care of plants throughout the year, and raising new plants from seed, cuttings, or division. Several garden projects show how to create the traditional herbaceous border, manage difficult sites, and grow perennials in containers. There is also a helpful color photo plant directory. If clematis or roses become your passion after being introduced to perennials, you'll also find informative AHS guides on them as well.

Containers by Peter Robinson will convince you that you don't have to have a garden plot to enjoy growing plants. This guide is particularly helpful to apartment, condominium, or small property dwellers. Robinson discusses choosing the right container for the right plant and how to site and group them for an overall pleasing effect. He also offers several projects that allow the container gardener to make painted, stenciled, and mosaic pots, construct wooden windowboxes, planters, and faux stone troughs. He explains plant care from choosing various soil mixes and planting to caring for potted plants throughout the year. A colorful plant directory gives the mature size of plants, and a section on edible plants for container growing will broaden any beginner's gardening skills and enjoyment.

Ponds & Water Features, also by Peter Robinson, shows you how to create both small and large ponds and water features. Again, those who live in apartments or small dwellings will be interested in this guide, because Robinson proves that you don't need a lot of space to enjoy the sound of water. His guide shows you how to choose a water feature that suits the style of your garden, taking into consideration traditional, contemporary, and multicultural influences. He demonstrates how to make a simple lined pond, add beaches and bog gardens, cascades and canals, create bubble fountains and wall fountains. There is also an important section on choosing and planting water plants and maintaining them throughout the year. A color plant directory for water environments waterlilies, lotuses, marginal plants, and moisture-loving plants is at the end of the book.

Plant Propagation, edited by Alan Toogood, is a larger comprehensive reference for dealing with all methods of propagation for more than 1,500 plants. It is beginner-friendly and offers easy-to-follow, step-by-step explanations. Each entry in the A-Z section tells you which method of propagation to use for which plant, when to propagate, and what degree of skill each method requires. The book explains which seeds need special treatment before sowing, how to provide the conditions to ensure good germination, the yield you can expect, and length of time to maturity. If you haven't a clue about taking cuttings from specific plants and insuring successful rooting, Toogood simplifies things for you. His resource is so comprehensive that this is the only plant propagation reference you'll ever need. AHS offers many more references, encyclopedias, and guides than are discussed here, and each provides the same concise, informative material and color photo entries. Beginners should be choosy about the references that form the core of their garden library. Other books written with a European or English bent may tempt beginners with colorful pictures of lush gardens and seemingly easy-to-grow plants accompanied by copious instructions, but it would be wise to leave them for later enjoyment.

Beginners will soon realize that growing conditions in American are not the same as growing conditions in other countries. Growing anything here is far more difficult than growing plants in other countries. America is a country of extremes, and each of our many regions has its own particular problems. Other countries don't have to put up with annual drought, blizzards, tornadoes, hail storms, floods, high humidity, plunging frigid temperatures, torrential rains, occasional volcanic cloud cover, and 115-degree heat waves. The goal of the AHS is to educate people of all ages in becoming successful and environmentally responsible gardeners. By advancing the art and science of horticulture, they hope to make this goal a reality. To find out more about the Society, beginners can find them online at www.ahs.org.

Pat Regel writes and gardens in Mt. Juliet, Tennessee.

Have you ever needed clear-cut, specific information on a gardening subject? You check your favorite gardening magazine and find more fluff than substance. The gardening books you've collected over the years have a little information, but don't address the subject in depth, and your local…

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Honore de Balzac said that marriage is a science. But anyone who has ever planned one knows that weddings are an art. Fortunately, there are numerous new books to help you create your own matrimonial masterpiece.

Real Weddings: A Celebration of Personal Style is a tribute to that diversity. With description that leaves you feeling like you were the guest of honor, Bride's magazine's managing editor Sally Kilbridge tells the personal stories of 16 couples on their special day. Mallory Samson's colorful photographs capture each intimate detail, while painting the big picture of these perfect parties. It's a treat to read about the love stories and behind-the-scenes planning that led to weddings inspired by home, heritage, summer, and fantasy.

How do you keep the terrifying ring of the cash register from deafening the lovely ring of wedding bells? That's what Deborah McCoy answers in her book, The Elegant Wedding and the Budget Savvy Bride. This step-by-step guide shares secrets and strategies to saving money without sacrificing bridal bliss. McCoy, a wedding consultant who owns a bridal salon, starts with ten commandments of wedding planning that underscore the need for forethought, education, and common sense. Along with advice on everything from engagement rings to honeymoons, The Elegant Wedding and the Budget-Savvy Bride provides checklists for vendor contracts, questions to ask yourself and the professionals you hire, and handy budgeting sheets. By showing you how to prioritize and organize, McCoy backs up her simple but comforting theme: Being tasteful will save you money.

Of course, footing the bill is just one of the challenges of planning your big day. In The Couple's Wedding Survival Manual, Michael R. Perry details many more and offers some funny, yet helpful, suggestions for managing the madness. Operating under the assumption that, the human capacity for bickering knows no limits, Perry offers up his final word on topics like in-law management, guest list etiquette, and hassle-free honeymoons. Best of all are his frequent reminders to keep things in perspective. "You can have an all-kazoo orchestra, a minister with halitosis . . . and a limo that smells like formaldehyde," writes Perry. And at the end of the wedding day, you'll still be married which is, after all, the goal.

It is not just the happy couple that needs a sense of humor as they walk down the aisle. Bridesmaids, who traditionally have little say in the dresses they wear, must keep their chins up as they drown in those expensive taffeta terrors that sometimes make Cinderella seem underdressed. Despite the bride's good intentions, don't you just know you'll never wear that frightful gown again? Cindy Walker comes to the rescue with 101 Uses for a Bridesmaid Dress. Among the places where these frilly frocks are always in vogue, says Walker, are a Tara Revisited party or during your stint as guest host of Wheel of Fortune. Donna Mehalko's wicked illustrations do justice to the book's sublimely silly tone. With tongue-in-cheek recycling suggestions, including everything from a vicious scarecrow to a deluxe sleeping divan for your cat, 101 Uses for a Bridesmaid Dress is a great present for a bride to give her tolerant attendants.

Besides making the bride look good, what are a bridesmaid's duties? Emily Post will answer that and many other etiquette questions in the latest edition of Emily Post's Wedding Planner, Third Edition. The latest version serves as a companion to the bridal classic, Emily Post's Weddings. This interactive wedding planner guides you through the ins and outs of creating the big day with to-do lists, cost breakdown sheets, pockets to store contracts and a calendar, and an address book to store all vendor information. Who should attend the rehearsal? What are the hidden costs to look out for in contracts? Do you need to invite unmarried significant others? Author Peggy Post also guides you through the legalities and proprieties of each step along the bridal path.

Emily Post is among the experts quoted in Vera Lee's Something Old, Something New. An unmarried girl should not go alone on overnight trips with any young man, even with her fiance, says Post in Lee's lighthearted look at matrimony. Famous folks as diverse as William Longfellow and Dorothy Parker weigh in with their entertaining opinions and advice on the institution of marriage. Experienced bride Zsa Zsa Gabor says, I personally adore marriage . . . I even cry at weddings. Especially my own. But Something Old, Something New is primarily a fascinating glimpse into marital history and customs from all over the world. If you are going to be showered with rice, it's nice to know why traditionally the grain has been a symbolic wish for a large harvest of babies.

With the stress and confusion that planning a wedding can bring, Lee's book is a wonderful reminder that getting married should be fun. But staying married is hard work. Marg Stark's What No One Tells the Bride presents an honest look at the difficulties that naturally ensue after a couple takes the big plunge. Stark shares her own experiences, and those of 50 brides she interviewed, to offer real-life scenarios of for-better-or-worse. Sidebars provide the ultimate girl-talk confessions and advice, revealing the ambivalence, misconceptions, and disappointment that can sometimes follow you down the aisle. What No One Tells the Bride is not whiny or male-bashing. Stark herself is happily married with no regrets. Her book is frank, yet optimistic and helpful, advising newlyweds to, talk about the exquisite joy there is awakening every day with the same person . . . and enjoy the way marriage surprises the soul.

Emily Abedon is a writer in Charleston, South Carolina.

Honore de Balzac said that marriage is a science. But anyone who has ever planned one knows that weddings are an art. Fortunately, there are numerous new books to help you create your own matrimonial masterpiece.

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If you think minimalism is a one-size-fits-all lifestyle and aesthetic, you clearly haven’t encountered Christine Platt, known on social media as the Afrominimalist. In her clearly written, approachable guide, The Afrominimalist’s Guide to Living With Less (5.5 hours), Platt traces her journey—including plenty of initial resistance and more than a few missteps—toward deliberately choosing to live with fewer objects. The author’s calm, careful narration is both relatable and ressuring, and it’s punctuated by real-life, sometimes humorous anecdotes delivered by a cast of additional narrators. 

Platt’s guidance is enriched by sections titled “For the Culture,” in which she acknowledges how the history of racial oppression and systemic racism has, in many ways, made Black and other historically marginalized people of color more vulnerable to overconsumption and conspicuous consumption. She also notes that the Scandinavian aesthetic that permeates most mainstream minimalist guidebooks doesn’t come close to representing everybody. Platt’s friendly, flexible approach urges listeners to embrace a minimalism that celebrates cultural heritage and comes in all colors.

 

ALSO IN BOOKPAGE: Read our starred review of print edition of The Afrominimalist’s Guide to Living With Less.

Afrominimalist Christine Platt’s calm, careful narration of her journey toward living with less is both relatable and reassuring.
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As a bibliophile and teacher, I’m naturally drawn to The Art of Mindful Reading. Ella Berthoud preaches the benefits and balm of slow, thoughtful reading and the deep enjoyment of physical books and the printed word. She provides fresh ideas and exercises for retraining your brain to tune out distractions so you can truly dive deep into story or poem. She draws on compelling research—did you know fiction readers are shown to live longer?—and her argument for reading as a means to improved concentration and overall mental health couldn’t be more relevant, as we’re all feeling the strain of life in the attention economy.

Ella Berthoud preaches the benefits and balm of slow, thoughtful reading and the deep enjoyment of physical books and the printed word.
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Every woman in my circle cops to a fascination with the science-meets-self-care world of serums, masks and exfoliants. That said, I feel desperate for a trail guide when I walk into Sephora. Enter Fresh Face, which defines skin care as integral to well-being. Mandi Nyambi lays out routines for different skin types, concerns and situations. (A few favorites are “When You’re on a 14-Hour Flight,” “Broke B*itch” and “After a Day of Mansplaining.”) She introduces the cutting-edge concept of the microbiome, “the ecosystem of microorganisms . . . that live in and around the surface of the skin,” noting that bacteria can in fact be your buddies when it comes to a clear complexion. My 11-year-old wrinkled her nose at this idea, but I suspect this book will be a useful tool for her in years to come. 

Mandi Nyambi lays out routines for different skin types, concerns and situations.
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I can’t take it too seriously, but that didn’t keep me from being ridiculously entertained by The Boho Manifesto by self-described “gypset” (gypsy + jet-setter) Julia Chaplin. She dates the new bohemian era to the 2008 economic crash and peers at it from every angle—from meditation and yoga to polyamory and chakra sightseeing. Sprinkled throughout are amusing illustrations of subtypes: tantric yogi, activist farmer, fermentation goddess (“sells her natural fragrance made from soil, wild thyme flower, and wood on her e–commerce site”). Chaplin likely had a delightful time putting this book together, and if you see even a moon-dust particle of yourself in these pages, you’ll dig it, too. Palo santo not included. 

Self-described “gypset” (gypsy + jet-setter) Julia Chaplin dates the new bohemian era to the 2008 economic crash and peers at it from every angle—from meditation and yoga to polyamory and chakra sightseeing.
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If you’ve visited a plant store lately, you’ve no doubt seen the words “bright, indirect light” on many of the specimens for sale. Problem is, not everyone’s home boasts Instagrammable light conditions, and there are low-light rooms or nooks in even the most well-lit abode. Grow in the Dark, as its clever name suggests, is here for those spaces, focusing on the (many!) plants that thrive in low and medium light. (Of note: In general, variegated plants need more light than monochromatic green.) The plants are photographed in dramatic, shadowy, low-light conditions against colorful backdrops, which makes this book visually distinctive in a bumper crop of houseplant guides. Lisa Eldred Steinkopf also covers the use of electric lights and tips for buying plants. The bottom line? It matters where you shop.

If you’ve visited a plant store lately, you’ve no doubt seen the words “bright, indirect light” on many of the specimens for sale. Problem is, not everyone’s home boasts Instagrammable light conditions, and there are low-light rooms or nooks in even the most well-lit abode.…

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Do you love old things, natural things? Driftwood, bird nests, pebbles, branches, swatches of fabric, chipped crockery? Then, like me, you’ll love The Foraged Home, a gorgeous collection of things cast off, aged, repurposed, brimming with story and mystery. There are all manner of twigs, branches and dried flowers positioned artfully in neutral–washed settings; there are also short narrative vignettes about the interesting people who created these unique settings and possess “the foraging outlook,” as author Oliver Maclennan describes it. (His wife, Joanna Maclennan, shot the photographs.) “People forget that time itself is an artist,” says one subject. “We take our time, enjoying the imperfections and often changing things.”

Do you love old things, natural things? Driftwood, bird nests, pebbles, branches, swatches of fabric, chipped crockery? Then, like me, you’ll love The Foraged Home, a gorgeous collection of things cast off, aged, repurposed, brimming with story and mystery.

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I don’t plan to move house anytime soon, but someday, when the time comes, I’ll be very glad to have Ali Wenzke’s The Art of Happy Moving. What a thorough little book this is, covering everything from making the tough decisions about why and where to move, to hiring a realtor and staging your home, to moving-day survival tips. And Wenzke doesn’t just get you out the door sans stress. She has a lot of helpful ideas about how to make friends and integrate into new communities—for both you and your kids. The book is peppered with personality quizzes, charts and fill-in-the-blanks to help you discern what matters most, and Wenzke adds just enough personal narrative to make you feel both entertained and in capable hands.

I don’t plan to move house anytime soon, but someday, when the time comes, I’ll be very glad to have Ali Wenzke’s The Art of Happy Moving. What a thorough little book this is, covering everything from making the tough decisions about why and where to move, to hiring a realtor and staging your home, to moving-day survival tips.

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I don’t often cover health books here—there are so many, all filled with worthy but seemingly similar content. But Dr. Frank Lippman’s updated edition of How to Be Well caught my eye. “[A] manual of the essential skills that anyone can use to navigate safely and smoothly through the wild terrain of wellness today,” this one is so gorgeously designed that I genuinely wanted to keep looking at it. Lippman’s advice covers everything from bone broth to foam rollers to electromagnetic frequencies. A lot of what’s here is textbook health-service journalism fare, but also included is a list of healthy fats (think smoothies, tahini, Brussels sprouts with bacon), eight ways to “harness the power of dark to improve your sleep,” 10 baking-soda cleaning hacks and more. An index of basic protocols for common complaints and goals—brain fog, acne, weight loss, anxiety—is an especially nice way to close out this book. 

A manual of the essential skills that anyone can use to navigate safely and smoothly through the wild terrain of wellness today.

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As a self-described Japanologist and life coach, author Beth Kempton was surprised when she asked Japanese people to define wabi sabi—the concept of perfect imperfection—and the most common answer was, “It’s difficult to explain.” But Kempton persisted, and in Wabi Sabi, she lays out the characteristics of this concept and explains how they can be applied to our goal-oriented, consumer-driven, productivity-obsessed Western lives. An early section, “How is wabi sabi relevant today?” makes a compelling argument for its usefulness, and in chapters such as “Simplifying + beautifying,” “Acceptance + letting go” and “Reframing failure,” Kempton applies wabi sabi in practical ways, going beyond the common interior-styling or object-related application of the concept. This meaty book in a pretty, petite package is grounded by the author’s passion for and knowledge of Japan.

Beth Kempton lays out the characteristics of this concept and explains how they can be applied to our goal-oriented, consumer-driven, productivity-obsessed Western lives. 

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New Age practices have been getting updated lately, and Erica Feldmann’s HausMagick is one of the best examples I’ve seen yet. This “spellbook of interior alchemy” is an offshoot of HausWitch, Feldmann’s Salem, Massachusetts, shop where she sells all of the necessary tools for domestic witchery. Here, she lays out information on essential oils, herbs, energy work, crystals, astrology, tarot, cozy crafts and a few recipes to teach you how to create a happier, more aesthetically grounded home. Your personal space may just be cleaner, tidier and more welcoming with the help of various home-focused spells, which she calls “prayers with props,” but overall, Feldmann shares ways to help you feel empowered, less stressed and more self-aware by paying attention to your domestic surroundings.

This “spellbook of interior alchemy” is an offshoot of HausWitch, Feldmann’s Salem, Massachusetts, shop where she sells all of the necessary tools for domestic witchery.
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Top Pick in Lifestyles, December 2018

A similar approach can be found in famed stylist Wendy Goodman’s May I Come In?: Discovering the World in Other People’s Houses. Like Thompson, Goodman, driven by curiosity, makes a study of the interiors of artistic individuals. “[T]he most captivating rooms exist where decoration is a by-product of a person’s passions in life,” she writes. But Goodman’s quest is fueled by A-list access, and the spaces she explores belong to figures like Richard Avedon, Donatella and Gianni Versace and Todd Oldham. The homes on display here are sometimes quite posh and ornate, and other times more modest but rip-roaringly colorful, bursting with aesthetic whimsy. Goodman’s introductory essays are wonderful soupçons of observation; of Gloria Vanderbilt, she writes, “Nothing better illustrates her originality, or instinct for design, than the bedroom she created on East Sixty-Seventh Street, where she covered every inch of the room—walls, floor, and ceiling—with a collage of cut-up quilts.” Come, settle in for a look at the living quarters of the cultural elite.

 

This article was originally published in the December 2018 issue of BookPage. Download the entire issue for the Kindle or Nook.

 

Come, settle in for a look at the living quarters of the cultural elite.

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